Wednesday, September 21st, 2011

Learn the Basics of Foreplay

Cute-couples-_-love-19140674-500-333Women are from Venus. There everything is sensuous, slow and tactile, whereas, in the world of Martians, things have to be quick and precise. Women on an average take 20 minutes to warm up before the actual act. Since many men are not willing to devote so much of time to get their partner started, it can deprive women of the pleasure of lovemaking and they start thinking that men are only interested in sex. So, the question is how to strike the balance. Guardian Health Chronicle makes an attempt to sharpen your foreplay skills. Keep reading…

What men should know

Know her erogenous zones. Back of neck, ear lobes, belly button and collar bones are quite sensitive zones for most women. Kiss these areas delicately, you could even lick it and then blow air on it. Many women find it an exquisite torture. Linger on her earlobe for a while before you suck it gently.

Kissing gets the starring role in foreplay. It’s one of the most delicate acts of making love, confides Krishna, 22, DU student. In fact, if a man knows the right kissing technique, then he can arouse the woman without doing anything else, shares she. While kissing, be bold and go beyond lips. The act of holding the face of your beloved in your hands and gently stroking the errant hair strands away before you give her a deep passionate kiss on her lips is quite arousing for many women. If she is comfortable, there is nothing more satisfying than a French kiss (read the last issue of Guardian Health Chronicle to learn more).

Make massage an integral part of foreplay. Choose relaxing oils like lavender to give that sensuous massage to your beloved. Rub her back and pay special attention to the knotted muscles at the back of the neck. While massaging avoid slathering her with oil all over. A foot rub is a good idea to arouse your beloved because when you rub the arch of her right foot, you affect her about 30 inches higher and a little to the left.

Tease her. Foreplay should be fun and not finish too soon. Practice bringing your partner’s desire up and then moving away from the area targeted. Tease her until she can take it no more. This will heighten the expectation and make sex much more fulfilling when it comes.

What women should know

Women, there is no need to just lie down and let the man do the hard work. You too can return his favours. And if you have doubts that men don’t enjoy foreplay; then it’s high time you got your facts right.

Speak up. Women enjoy the attention lavished by their by their partner, but do not verbalise their feelings. Speaking or hearing erotically charged words stimulates dopamine transmission, which plays a huge role in sexual excitement,” explains Ian Kerner, PhD, author of Passionista. “They can enhance the emotional and physical intensity of the experience.” So females, give your man feedback.

Show him. Guide his hand, his head. Show him how you like to be touched, caressed. Show him how slow or fast and where.

Give him quickies. This doesn’t mean you give him quickies every time, but don’t be afraid to give him quickies sometimes. If he is willing to give you the attention and foreplay you want, it’s only fair to give him what he wants too. Not only that, but you may find you love them as well!

No two people are alike. Hence there can’t be any straight forward plan on foreplay. You go to explore it with your beloved and find what arouses both of you. Are you still turning the pages of the magazine?

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